I sit down to breakfast and ask, “You’re not a Trump supporter are you?” You’re an attractive, amiable man, so I was hoping we could clear that hurdle. Of course, you like Trump and defend him. Persistently. I tell you I expect there to be a civil war. You agree. Several days later, a politically motivated shooting occurs in D.C. From now on I’ll make a point of asking the deal-breaker question in advance. If Trump can be caught on tape bragging about grabbing women and still get more than half of all men’s vote, I have serious reservations about dating at all.

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